How to Get Yourself Out of a Bummer Mood

Hello! How’s your day going today? I am feeling good thanks to another fabulous Tone It Up workout that I did this evening. It’s funny how I can feel so lazy and “blah” and then once I do my workout, I’ll feel totally refreshed and energized. One of my favorite benefits of exercise is how good I feel after I do it.

I know I’ve been away from the blog for the past few days. Sorry! I have been battling a cold/allergies and I have to practice what I preach, “relax and sleep when you’re not feeling well.” It’s so much easier to tell others to do things than to do them ourselves, right? Well, I’m back and I’ve had some time to think about today’s post. I wanted to share with you some tips that I’ve developed from personal experience.

How to Get Yourself Out of a Bummer Mood

If you are anything like me, there are some days when you feel upset about everything. You got into work late, you had to deal with a cranky person on the phone, you’re unhappy with your job, you can’t find a boyfriend/girlfriend or you’re upset with your partner, you don’t have enough money to buy a new iPad. Have you had any days like this? I admit that some days it seems like my problems outweigh my blessings. Deep down, I know this isn’t true, but it’s how I feel at that moment in time. Usually I can make myself snap out of this mindset by reminding myself how fortunate I am to be loved by my family and friends and how lucky I am to have a roof over my head, nutritious food in my fridge and a healthy body. However, there are still some days when I need to take a little more action to get myself out of my “bummer mood.”

Here are my favorite tips for shifting your mindset when you’re not feeling your best:

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1. Write it down. When it feels like everything is going wrong in my life, I take out a piece of paper and make a list of everything that is bothering me. Once I have my list written down I come up with a possible solution for each situation.

Just like that, I already feel better knowing that I have an action step to take and it’s as simple as picking up the phone and calling someone for assistance. Sometimes your issue can be larger than a computer repair.

Attracting new friends can seem like a daunting task until you step outside of your comfort zone and put yourself in a new setting. Sign up for a running club, take a class at your local community college, or volunteer with an organization. These are all great settings to meet new people with similar interests.

2. Call a friend and make plans. Last Sunday I was at home and felt really lonely. What I wanted was a big batch of gluten-free chocolate chip cookies. However, I knew that a sweet treat wasn’t going to cure my loneliness at the time. Instead, I texted some of my close friends to see if they wanted to come over for dinner that night. They said that they could use a study break and would love to come over. Instantly I felt better because I now had to plan a menu, prepare a meal and enjoy dinner with some of my friends. Next time you’re feeling blue, invite someone to do something. If they can’t, find someone who can. I will literally call all the contacts on my phone until I can make plans with someone.

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3. Do a 5-min meditation. Lately, when I get home from work, I feel exhausted and worn out. All I want to do is plop down on the couch and turn on the T.V. A great alternative that I’ve put to use is to go in my room, shut my door and do a 5-10 minute guided meditation. I simply type “guided meditation” into youtube.com. I lay down, close my eyes and follow along to the meditation. When I’m done with my meditation, I feel relaxed and ready to ease into my evening. A 5-minute meditation can turn a “blah” mood into a good mood.

4. Eat a protein/carbohydrate combo. I do not always advocate turning to food to improve your mood. However, if you haven’t eaten in the past four hours and feel a little “low,” try pairing a lean protein with a high-fiber carbohydrate. Some snack combo examples include: 3 slices of organic turkey breast with a handful of baby carrots, 2 Tablespoons of almond butter with an organic apple, a scoop of protein powder blended with 1/2 cup frozen berries, 1 cup almond milk and 2 ice cubes. I promise that you will be feeling energized within 20 minutes. If a snack-size amount of food won’t cut it, go ahead and make a balanced meal with some lean protein, healthy carbohydrate and a little fat. Just remember to keep it light and don’t use this as an excuse to sneak some chips or candy. These will leave you feeling worse than before you ate them.

You already know how much I love my ToneItUp workouts :)

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5. Commit to your favorite workout. Nothing makes me feel as good as a sweaty workout. Well, almost nothing ;) Sometimes when I score a really great deal on a new outfit, I feel pretty darn good! The reason why exercise can boost our mood is because our bodies release a type of “feel-good” endorphin during exercise.

Don’t feel like working out? My top three tips for motivating myself to do a workout include: telling myself that I only have to do it for 10 minutes. If I still don’t feel like working out after 10 minutes, I can stop. Most of the time, I already feel good after 10 minutes, so I continue on with my workout.

Another thing I do is ask myself why type of workout I absolutely do not feel like doing. Then I give myself permission not to do it and instead think of one that I do feel like doing. For example, if a 3-mile run sounds awful, but a weight training circuit sounds better, skip the run and do the weight workout.

My third way of motivating myself to do a workout is to watch a few workout videos on youtube. Once I see someone else working out and looking like they’re enjoying their workout, it usually motivates me to join in and bust out a workout.

There you go! These are my time-tested tips for getting yourself out of a bummer mood. I want to clarify that I am not trying to offer these to support people with depression (you should seek medical support if you think you suffer from depression) and am solely trying to offer suggestions for those who have the occasional “bad mood.”

Readers: What are your favorite ways to improve your mood when you’re feeling down?

I snapped this photo last Friday after running along with Portland waterfront with my friend, McKenzie.